My friends were planning a get together for one of my friend’s birthday , the dilemma started when we were planning it. My friends were so disorganized and did not have a plan, it was a huge mess. So therefore I decided not to participate because I only knew that it would lead to a fight. Later after her birthday passed they were questioning me and asking why I did not come to the get together, I just said I had plans. I got mad because they did not ask the other person why they did not come when they did not have any plans, when I did. Why are my friends like this ?